An online search to purchase sex toys about three to four years ago would largely lead you to questionable websites selling obviously phallic-looking ‘massagers’, with visuals designed to cater to the male gaze. Even if one browsed from the anonymity of the incognito mode, it was quite likely that you would be overcome with a sense of shame for seeking ways of (self) pleasure.
This was much before homegrown brands in India introduced well-designed and inclusive sexual wellness products and, with it, candid and comprehensive conversations on sex in a country where it is only talked about in hushed tones, if at all.